DameOur review.

What Dame is

Dame is the Brooklyn sex-toy brand that set out to close what it calls the "Pleasure Gap" — the fact that women come a lot less often than men during sex. It was founded in 2014 by sexologist Alexandra Fine and MIT engineer Janet Lieberman, and its first product, the Eva, a hands-free vibrator you tuck between the labia during penetration, became, in Dame's words, *the most crowdfunded sex toy in history*. The second toy, the Fin finger vibe, was the first sex toy allowed on Kickstarter, and in 2019 the brand famously sued New York's subway for refusing its ads. Today Dame sells a tight range of vibrators, couples' toys, lube, arousal products and a few crystal dildos, all designed with a 10,000-member testing community ("Dame Labs") and a clinical board of doctors and a sex therapist.

Verified facts (31 Oct 2026)

• Read today: dame.com homepage, About, Shop All, FAQ index, shipping, refund and privacy/terms policies.
• Company: Dame Products, Inc, 101 North 10th Street, Suite 308, Brooklyn, New York 11249 (privacy statement); support at support@dameproducts.com; online chat.
• Founders: Alexandra Fine (sexologist) and Janet Lieberman (MIT engineer), 2014.
• Bestsellers and prices (USD, official shop): Dip basic vibrator $44, Min mini wand $76, Hug vibrating cock ring $79, Candle warming wand $79, Pom palm vibrator $103, Com wand $119, Arc G-spot vibrator $119, Aer suction vibrator $125, Eva wearable vibrator $129; Aloe lube from $12–$19; Emojibator bullets $29.
• Warehouse sale: Pom $51.50 (was $103), Aer x Sephora $62.50 (was $125), Fin $24.50 (was $49), Zee $12.50 (was $25). A banner promised "up to 60% off" for Black Friday at our check.
• Promises on the homepage: medical-grade silicone, waterproof charging port, 60-day satisfaction guarantee, 3-year warranty, discreet shipping, "user-tested + doctor-approved", 10,000+ five-star reviews.
• Returns: within 60 days of receipt you get a website credit that never expires — no physical return needed, but no cash refund; original shipping isn't credited.
• Shipping: free on US orders over $100; orders are processed Sunday–Thursday, fulfilment can take up to 7 days at peak; 18+ only.

The range, in plain words

Eva is the reason Dame exists: a small, wingless-looking vibe whose flexible arms hold it under the labia so it buzzes on the clit while you have sex, no hands needed — perfect for women who don't come from penetration alone. Aer is Dame's air-suction toy, the answer to the Womanizer/Satisfyer clit-suckers, with 937 reviews averaging 4.8 stars at our check. Pom is a squishy palm vibe that molds to your body (1,352 reviews, 4.8 stars), Arc is the curved G-spot vibe, Com and Min are wand massagers, and Dip is a no-nonsense starter at $44. For him and for couples there's the Hug vibrating cock ring. Around that: aloe lube, a Play Balm, an Arousal Serum, the Thro sex blanket and a set of crystal dildos.

How it feels

Dame isn't about raw horsepower — it's about shapes that fit real bodies. The toys are small, soft-touch, quiet-looking objects you'd leave on a nightstand, and the brand pushes couples play hard: Eva and Hug are designed to be worn during intercourse rather than replace it. If you want a monster wand or an app ecosystem with cam integration, this isn't it. If you want a hands-free vibe that actually stays put during sex, Eva is still one of the few that does.

Pricing

Dame sits in the mid-premium bracket: $44 for the Dip, around $76–$129 for the flagships. That's more than Satisfyer and on par with We-Vibe or Womanizer — but the warehouse sale cuts several models in half, and the Black Friday banner was already live at our check. Two catches for European buyers: prices are in USD, and the free-shipping threshold is US-only, so check delivery costs and import fees at checkout before you fall in love.

Pros

• Founded by a sexologist and an MIT engineer, user-tested with 10,000+ people
• Eva: one of the few hands-free vibes that stays in place during sex
• Medical-grade silicone, waterproof charging port
• 3-year warranty, 60-day satisfaction guarantee
• Big warehouse-sale discounts (up to 50% on some models)
• Discreet shipping

Cons

• 60-day guarantee pays out as store credit, not cash
• Prices in USD; free shipping only on US orders over $100
• Small range, no app-controlled toys
• Less raw power than wand or air-pulse specialists

Who it is for

Dame is for women and couples who want pleasure during sex, not instead of it: Eva for hands-free clit stimulation during penetration, Hug for him to share the buzz, Aer for a quieter alternative to the classic clit-sucker. Want the strongest air-pulse for less? Take Satisfyer, or the original Womanizer — and see our Womanizer vs Satisfyer face-off. For app-controlled couples' toys, We-Vibe and Lovense; for German-made silicone, Fun Factory. Budget hunters should read our best cheap sex toys guide and the full sex toys ranking.

Verdict

7.7/10. Dame makes smart, body-friendly toys designed around how women actually come, and Eva is still a genuinely clever couples' toy. The 3-year warranty and warehouse sales help — store-credit-only returns, USD pricing and a small range keep it just below the big European brands.

FAQ

Is Dame a good sex toy brand?

Yes. Dame was founded in 2014 by sexologist Alexandra Fine and MIT engineer Janet Lieberman, uses medical-grade silicone, tests products with a 10,000+ member community and offers a 3-year warranty.

What is the Dame Eva?

A hands-free wearable vibrator ($129 on the official shop on 31 Oct 2026) that sits under the labia and stimulates the clitoris during penetration. Dame calls it the most crowdfunded sex toy in history.

How much do Dame toys cost?

On 31 Oct 2026: Dip $44, Min $76, Hug $79, Pom $103, Arc and Com $119, Aer $125, Eva $129. Warehouse-sale models were up to 50% off.

Can I return a Dame toy?

Within 60 days of receipt you can request a website credit that never expires — you don't need to send the toy back, but you won't get cash, and the original shipping isn't credited.

Does Dame ship discreetly?

Yes, Dame advertises discreet shipping. Shipping is free on US orders over $100; international delivery costs are shown at checkout.