Wyylde, JOYclub and Nouslib at a glance
SpiceRadar scores and prices checked on official pages (check date in brackets). All three are adults-only.
| Service | Score | Best at | Price |
|---|---|---|---|
| JOYclub | 7.9/10 | 7.48M members, parties, clubs, livestreams and forums (28 Oct) | Free Basic · Premium from €9.50 (women, couples) or €16.50/month (men) |
| Wyylde | 7.6/10 | France's biggest libertine network, 7M users claimed (21 Oct) | Gold €22.90/month · €99.90/year |
| Nouslib | 7.5/10 | France's open-minded dating app since 2007, 60% women and couples claimed (24 Oct) | From €9.90/week or €21.90/month (App Store) |
The community: France vs Europe
Wyylde is the French libertine scene: 7 million users claimed, parties and clubs all over France, certified profiles and exhib lives, solo or as a couple. If you want to find a couple 30 km away on Saturday night or a party at the local club, that's where it happens.
JOYclub plays in another league: 7,480,157 members and 1,117,345 logins in 24 hours shown on its French homepage on 28 Oct 2026. But its heart beats in Germany, Austria and Switzerland — it calls its own events calendar the biggest erotic events calendar in the German-speaking world. In France it works, but the local listing is thinner. Its big plus: it's a real social network for sex, with forums, groups, galleries, a magazine and member livestreams.
Nouslib is more intimate: 3M+ members claimed, 60% of them women and couples, solo or couple profiles, ephemeral photos, video calls and a 'free tonight' mode for same-day hookups. Fewer parties than Wyylde, but a simple, effective app.
Pricing: who pays what
Wyylde: free sign-up (profile, ad, photos, restricted browsing), but to message, chat, see media and lives you need Gold: €22.90 a month, €44.90 a quarter or €99.90 a year according to its Help Center (21 Oct 2026). No discount for women or couples, tacit renewal, cancel 48 hours before the due date. Discreet descriptor: NETECK-VPC.
JOYclub: free Basic, and it's the only one of the three that really does something for women and couples — free Plus membership after verification, Premium from €9.50 a month. Men pay Premium from €16.50 a month (Premium-Light from €9.50) on the web, per the official pricing page. In the JOYCE app it costs more: €20 a month, €179.99 a year (French App Store, 28 Oct 2026). Tip: a 6-month booking by bank transfer simply expires, with no renewal.
Nouslib: free to join but barely usable without a subscription. On the French App Store (24 Oct 2026), weekly plans run from €9.90 to €12.99 and monthly plans from €21.90 to €29.99, renewing automatically. Weeks add up fast: if you get hooked, switch to monthly.
Which one should you pick?
You're a couple who wants parties in France: Wyylde first — that's where the clubs and nearby couples are. You're a woman or a couple and want to try without paying: JOYclub, thanks to free Plus after verification. You're a single man: Wyylde's yearly Gold at €99.90 is the cheapest annual plan of the three; add JOYclub Premium from €16.50/month on the web if you want the community too. Competition is tough everywhere — polish your profile and get verified. You just want a quick app for tonight: Nouslib.
The best combo? Wyylde for local, JOYclub for the community, the lives and trips to Germany. And everywhere, the same reflexes: note the renewal date, cancel in time, and remember that deleting your profile doesn't cancel a store subscription. To go further, read our swinger sites guide (Feeld, FetLife, SDC, Pure) and our full reviews.
Reviews to compare
| Service | Best for | Plan | Price | Payment | Official site |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Wyylde | Swingers, open couples and libertine singles who want real-life parties and meets, especially in France | free sign-up + Gold subscription | Free sign-up · Gold €22.90/mo, €44.90/3 mo, €99.90/yr | Card · Apple Pay | Visit ↗ |
| JOYclub | Open-minded singles and couples who want a community, events and clubs | freemium | Free Basic · Premium from €9.50/€16.50 per month | — | Visit ↗ |
| Nouslib | Open-minded singles and couples in France looking for threesomes, swaps and no-strings dates | free sign-up + subscription | Free sign-up · from €9.90/week or €21.90/month (App Store FR) | Card · Apple Pay | Visit ↗ |
Frequently asked questions
Wyylde or JOYclub: which is better?
JOYclub (7.9/10) is bigger (7.48M members on 28 Oct 2026) and more complete (forums, lives, groups); Wyylde (7.6/10) has the densest French libertine scene. In France many people use both.
Is JOYclub free?
Sign-up and Basic are free; women, couples and diverse members can get Plus free after verification. Premium costs from €9.50/month (women, couples) or €16.50/month (men) on the web.
How much does Wyylde cost?
Gold costs €22.90 a month, €44.90 a quarter or €99.90 a year according to Wyylde's Help Center (21 Oct 2026), with no discount for women or couples.
What's the best swinger app?
Nouslib (7.5/10) is the simplest French app, from €9.90/week or €21.90/month on the App Store. JOYclub also has an app, JOYCE, but it costs more than the website (€20 a month).