NouslibOur review.

What Nouslib is

Nouslib is the French "open-minded" dating app: the place where singles and couples say upfront what they want — a threesome, a swap, a no-strings night, a kinky date — and meet people who want the same thing. Launched in 2007, it sits right next to Wyylde in the French libertine scene, but with a different vibe: less swinger club, more modern hookup app with a liberated twist. Think Tinder for people who already know vanilla isn't enough.

The homepage claims 3M+ members on the site and app, 60% women and couples, 500k messages a day and profiles verified by its team. The French App Store description, updated with version 2.0.7 on 21 Oct 2026, quotes 350,000 messages and 40,000+ Kiss a day. Either way, it's one of the busiest open-minded dating communities in France, and that female/couple ratio is the number that matters if you're a single guy.

Verified facts (24 Oct 2026)

• Read today: the nouslib.com homepage (EN and FR), Terms of Use (CGU), Impressum, site rules and the French App Store listing.
• Operator: CBK INTERACTIVE, 14 rue Charles V, Paris (CS 26154, 75181 Paris Cedex 04); site hosted by NERIM SAS in Paris. Built and moderated 100% in France according to the App Store listing.
• Members: 3M+ claimed, 60% women and couples, profiles verified by the team, daily moderation of profiles and photos.
• Age: 18+ minimum (and legal age in every country where it's available).
• Features: solo or duo (couple) profiles, ephemeral photos that vanish after viewing, private albums, audio and video calls, "free tonight" members, stories (real or imagined) and the French Kiss, which pushes your profile to the top for 24 hours.
• Prices (French App Store, 24 Oct 2026): weekly subscriptions at €9.90, €9.99 or €12.99, monthly subscriptions at €21.90, €24.99 or €29.99, and a single French Kiss at €1.99. The Terms say prices are in euros incl. VAT and are those shown when you subscribe, depending on your device.
• Renewal: subscriptions renew automatically for the same period unless you cancel; cancel anytime from "Mon abonnement" on the site or from your Apple/Google account, and you keep the remaining days.
• Refunds: EU users get the legal 14-day withdrawal right (by email to retractation@nouslib.com for site/Google purchases, via Apple for App Store purchases).
• App rating: 4.3/5 from about 12k ratings on the French App Store.

What it's like inside

Sign-up is quick: you pick solo or duo, say who you're looking for and what you're into, and add photos. The profiles are what make Nouslib work — they're detailed, with desires spelled out instead of hidden behind small talk, so a couple looking for a unicorn or a guy hoping for a bi couple can find each other fast. The "free tonight" feature shows who's available right now, which turns the app into a proper hookup tool rather than a pen-pal service.

The spicy toolkit is solid. Ephemeral photos let you send nudes that disappear once opened, private albums stay locked until you open them to someone, and built-in audio and video calls let you check the chemistry (and that the couple is really a couple) before you meet. The Stories section is a nice touch: members post real or fantasy accounts, which gets conversations going around what people actually want to try.

The audience skews French and Western European (the site exists in French, English, German, Dutch, Italian and Japanese), with a big young-ish urban crowd. Moderation is daily and profiles get verified, which keeps the fake-profile rate lower than on the anonymous hookup sites.

Pricing

This is the catch. Nouslib is free to download and to create a profile, but the useful stuff sits behind a subscription — App Store reviewers complain that you can't do much without paying, and one quotes "at least €12 a week". On the French App Store on 24 Oct 2026, the plans listed were €9.90 to €12.99 per week and €21.90 to €29.99 per month, plus a French Kiss at €1.99 to boost your profile for 24 hours. Prices can differ between the website, iOS and Android, as the Terms point out.

Two habits save money: take the monthly plan rather than stacking weekly ones, and turn off auto-renew right after paying (you keep the days you paid for). In the EU you also have 14 days to change your mind.

Pros

• 3M+ members claimed, 60% women and couples
• Solo and couple profiles with desires spelled out
• Ephemeral photos, private albums, video calls
• "Free tonight" for same-day hookups
• French company, verified profiles, daily moderation
• 14-day withdrawal right in the EU

Cons

• Almost nothing useful without a subscription
• Weekly plans get expensive fast
• Mostly French and European members
• Less of a party/club scene than Wyylde

Who it is for

Nouslib is for open-minded singles and couples who want a modern, well-built app to arrange threesomes, swaps and no-strings dates, especially in France and Europe. If you want the full swinger ecosystem — club nights, parties, live cam exhib — Wyylde is still king. For kink and BDSM community, go FetLife; for an international poly/kinky app, try Feeld; for ultra-discreet 24-hour chats, Pure; for a bigger European community with events and livestreams, JOYclub; for a classic French libertine personals site with public prices, Place Libertine. Our best swinger sites guide compares them all, and the full ranking is in adult dating sites.

Verdict

7.5/10. Nouslib is the slickest open-minded dating app in France: a big, verified, female-and-couple-heavy community, clear profiles and real hookup tools like ephemeral photos, video calls and "free tonight". The paywall is aggressive and weekly plans add up, so go monthly and cut auto-renew — but if you're in France and want a threesome rather than a pen pal, it's one of the best bets you have.

FAQ

Is Nouslib free?

Creating a profile and downloading the app are free, but messaging and most features need a subscription. App Store reviewers say little is usable without paying.

How much does Nouslib cost?

On the French App Store (24 Oct 2026): weekly plans from €9.90 to €12.99 and monthly plans from €21.90 to €29.99, plus a French Kiss boost at €1.99. Prices depend on your device and can change.

Is Nouslib for couples?

Yes. You can sign up solo or as a duo, and the homepage says 60% of members are women and couples.

How do I cancel Nouslib?

On the website, go to "Mon abonnement" and click the unsubscribe link; on iOS or Android, cancel from your Apple or Google account. Renewal stops and you keep your remaining days.

Who runs Nouslib?

CBK INTERACTIVE, a company based in Paris (14 rue Charles V). The site is hosted in Paris and moderated in France.

Nouslib or Wyylde?

Nouslib is the better-designed dating app with a younger, hookup-first feel; Wyylde is the bigger libertine network with parties, clubs and live cams. Many French swingers use both.