KasidieOur review.

What Kasidie is

Kasidie is a swingers' social network built by swingers, for swingers — and it says so loudly: "not a porn site masquerading as a swingers site." It started in 2006 as an online lifestyle magazine, and in 2008 grew into its own in-house social network for what it now calls the ENM lifestyle (ethical non-monogamy). Today it pitches itself as the world's largest international ENM community: couples, singles, hotwives, cuckold couples, bi girls, kinksters and groups who want to hook up, party and travel together. It's run by Kasidie Entertainment, LLC (US, Nevada law).

The vibe is closer to a private club than a swipe app: profiles, friends, groups, a party calendar, club listings, travel plans, and a Rendezvous board for last-minute play dates.

Verified facts (2 Nov 2026)

• Read today: enm.kasidie.com — homepage, About, FAQ, Terms of Use and the feature pages (Certified Members, Profile Anonymity, Rendezvous, Interactive Features).
• History: online magazine since 2006, social network since 2008, built and run in-house.
• Free account "forever": receive and reply to emails, receive flirts and "raves", accept friend requests, search members and attend some parties.
• Elite (paid): unlocks the rest for "a small monthly cost". No public price list — the rate is shown after you join. Paid plans auto-renew on the cycle you chose (monthly, quarterly…) until you cancel; no partial refunds, no minimum term.
• Certification: a gold-seal badge earned by a photo of you (both of you for couples) holding your username and the date, by peer verification from a certified member or club owner who met you, or in person at a Kasidie event. Certified members get chat rooms, instant messaging, video/audio chat and can post events, groups and parties.
• Rendezvous: certified Elite members post their availability from today up to 7 days ahead — dinner, drinks, clubbing or sex — and can restrict who sees it by member type, friends, age and body type.
• Privacy tools: no fields for real names or addresses; block free members, block single guys, hide "who's viewing me" and birthday notices, or ghost your profile out of search. Kasidie says it uses AI tools to flag fake profiles and scams.
• Moderation: every photo and video is pre-screened before it goes live; posting X-rated content requires government-ID verification (since 15 Oct 2021).
• Extras: event and club listings (local, national, international, cruises, resorts), member travel plans, group chats, party tools with invitation lists, an "eXXXtra" toys section open to free members, an affiliate program.
• Age: 18+, or 21+ where that is the local minimum.

How it works

Sign up free, build a profile as a couple, single woman or single man, and say exactly what you're into — swapping, soft swap, hotwife, threesomes, group play, BDSM. Then you mostly wait for messages: free members can answer them, but to start the action, chat live and use Rendezvous you need Elite plus certification. Couples should get certified early — the gold seal is what makes other couples answer, and it switches on video chat and event posting.

The real value is offline. Kasidie lists lifestyle clubs, house parties, takeovers, resorts and cruises, lets you see who else is going through travel plans, and lets hosts run invite lists. If you travel a lot in the US, that's where it beats a pure dating app.

Pricing

Kasidie does not publish its Elite prices — you only see them after creating a free account. What the Terms do say: payment is optional, billing is evergreen on the anniversary date of your upgrade, cancelling stops future bills but there's no pro-rata refund, and an account banned for breaking the rules gets nothing back. Check the plan length before you pay and set a reminder.

Pros

• Real lifestyle community since 2006, built by swingers
• Free account you can keep forever, with replies allowed
• Gold-seal certification by photo, peer or in person
• Rendezvous board for same-week play dates
• Strong privacy toggles: ghost mode, block single guys
• Party, club, cruise and resort listings with travel plans

Cons

• Elite prices hidden until you sign up
• Auto-renewal, no partial refunds
• Live chat and video need certification on top of Elite
• US-centred community; thinner in France and much of Europe
• Dated interface compared to apps like Feeld

Who it is for

Kasidie is for couples and select singles already curious about the lifestyle — especially in North America — who want parties, clubs and travel meet-ups, not just a hookup feed. In France, Belgium or Switzerland, start with Wyylde or JOYclub; for the biggest international party scene look at SDC and SwingLifestyle; for app-style threesome matching, Feeld; for kink events, FetLife. Full comparison in our best swinger sites guide and the adult dating ranking.

Verdict

7.1/10. Kasidie is the real deal for lifestyle couples: a 20-year-old community with certified members, a party and travel engine and serious privacy controls. It loses points for hiding its prices and for refund rules that favour the house — open a free profile, get certified, and only go Elite once you see local couples answering.

FAQ

Is Kasidie free?

Yes — the free account is yours to keep forever. You can receive and reply to emails, receive flirts, accept friend requests, search members and attend some parties. Starting conversations, live chat and posting a Rendezvous need Elite status and certification.

How much does Kasidie Elite cost?

Kasidie doesn't publish the price; it's shown after you join. Its Terms say paid plans auto-renew on the chosen cycle (monthly, quarterly, etc.) until you cancel, with no partial refunds.

How do you get certified on Kasidie?

Send a photo of yourself (both partners for couples) holding a sign with your username and the date, get vouched for by a certified member or club owner who met you, or get certified in person at a Kasidie event.

Is Kasidie discreet?

Profiles never ask for real names or addresses, and you can block free members or single guys, hide who's viewing you and ghost your profile from search. All photos and videos are reviewed before posting.

Is Kasidie good outside the US?

Kasidie calls itself international and lists international parties and resorts, but its testimonials and community are US-heavy. In Europe, pair it with a local network such as Wyylde or JOYclub.